SYEAD IBRAHIM SABARI

Love Marriage

Love marriage is a term used primarily in South Asia, especially in India, Pakistan, Bangladesh and Sri Lanka, to describe a marriage where the individuals love each other and get married with or without consent of their parents.
Many people in our society believe in love marriage , because this type of marriage is based on understanding between the two parts , and the settlement in their family . They also live in happiness and peace , because they had chosen each other from the beginning . 


             The couple who married upon love will understand each other . They will share their opinions and decisions in every thing whether small or big . Each one will not take any decision in his own life without sharing the other fellow . If they argue about something , they will be able to find a suitable solution for both of them . Although there a lot of problems between children , they can solve it easily with each other . There will not be a great difference in their way of thinking , and taking decisions . They will be one hand in facing the obstacles , and difficulties of life . 


             Happiness also is a very important benefit of love marriage , as every one in the family will feel with comfort . The couples can enjoy their life . They will be content about themselves . They will not make the usually quarrels which we see in most of the families . Each one of them will look for the comfort and happiness of the other fellow , as there is a mutual love between them . If one of them felt into a trouble , the other one will save him , and try to help with all what he possess of money , energy or time . If one of them felt ill , the other fellow gives him the complete care till he becomes well . 
             Finally , I think that the love marriage is better than the arranged marriage , because it has many benefits , such as the understanding between the two couples , and the happiness and peace in the family , and I want to send a message to all the youth to be careful in their love , and their emotions specially in marriage . 

Marriage has been described as one of the oldest and most enduring human institutions however the reasons for marrying have varied extensively from period to period and culture to culture. In many cases marrying was predominantly an economic decision which determined the suitor that the family could find for the daughter. In some cultures a man’s wealth was based on the size of his harem or the number of spouses that he maintained while in other cultures a young woman’s family was expected to give a substantial dowry to her suitor. Throughout the centuries women have found themselves in a moderately submissive role in courtship, marriage, and their everyday life. Many women were traditionally married to older men chosen by the girl’s.


With the advancements that women make in their education and careers, they are able to support themselves financially without the need of a male. If she has a successful career with a decent salary, then she can provide herself shelter, food, and other necessities to survive. Being financially stable means that the woman does not need to rely on a man to support her, so if she finds that her husband is verbally or physically abusive, then she can file for a divorce. Her advanced education and career gives the woman the freedom to make the choice to leave the man, or if she is very dedicated to the man she loves, get the man professional help. A love match gives women the liberty to refuse men that they do not like, and allow women to select men who they desire .